love. sex. lust. money. happiness.
different people have different thoughts on LOVE. some will say love give me happiness, when we laugh smile and do everthng togther, thts love. some will say i love him for his money, cos he is rich. being rich will make me, us happy. some will say sex is love. lust is love.
its abit upsetting when girls really thought making sex would help a relationship last. cos tbh it does not at all. in fact, by giving your body, and everthyng to him, will make him leave even faster.
'you love me right?'
'yes i love you and wont leave you, i swear'
and girls being girls. once they got this kind of assurance, they will give them - sex, thts what i mean
but what about girls who dont wanna give?
feels like they have disappoint the other party. and what if they gt the worse partner ever? abuse, physically abuse. (is it worth it?)
living a life as a girl is easy? being in a relationship is easy?
it is when you know you got the right partner who knows how to take care of your dignity. its easy when both of you knows how to resist the temptation. it is easy if you know you guys confirm plus chop gonna end up marrying each other. so ya la like he's the only guy which gt your body.
what if you guys had sex? and you guys dont even last? like shits happen, feelings fade, people change, promises are just promise. u geddit? you gave ur body to someone. and once they are not part of your life, what gonna happen?
you cry, you regret, you wanna commit suicide, you are ashamed of yourself, crying every night, freaked out when you havent got ur period.
sounds .... tough right.......
so my main focus is just this. sex doenst mean love. it dont at all. cos if he really love you and know tht you guy will last till marriage, he wont even touch you before marrying you. he will wait till you are rightfully his. he wont even feed you with his sweetalks just so he can have his lust desired. its not worth crying over spilled milk once you realised you are pregnant. maybe its good if the other party will acknowledge it. but what if he doenst. realised how stupid u were back then?
LOVE IS NOT LUST AND NOT SEX AND WHATEVER WHICH MEANS TOUCHING YOUR BODY OR WHAT SHITTTTTTTTTT